The concept of vibration was hard for me to grasp when I was young and learning about the world from my father.  I couldn’t wrap my mind around what it meant, mostly because I could not see it. I am going to try to break it down for you.

“Every emotion you feel for another person lives inside you and effects your vibration.”

            We are all energy.  This is not a crazy idea or notion, this is scientific fact.  If you can believe that we are all energy, and you know a little about energy then you know that we are basically million of molecules in motion. The motion creates matter, and is visible to the human eye. You can touch us, see us, we are “real”.  This motion in our energy field creates a vibration around us.  I will take it one step further and tell you that I believe we are attracted to like vibration and we repel from unlike vibration.  This may sound a little crazy, but go with me on this for a moment.

“If my vibration matches the vibration of what I desire, then I can attract it easily. “

            Have you ever met someone who you instantly connected with? It was love at first sight or an instant friendship, like you have known this person forever?  Or have you ever met someone who gave you the creeps or who you just didn’t like but you couldn’t explain why? I believe this is related to vibration.

            What if no one was right and no one was wrong?  Think about this for a moment.  I have had many days trying to make sense of behavior. Why did a certain person act the way she acted or why was I betrayed or why did a friendship fail?  Countless hours and days.  Then I started to realize that the why didn’t matter.  I would never be able to make sense of why people do what they do and it is not my place to understand.  All I need to do is hold a place of acceptance, love and non-judgement for all other people.  That is my work, the rest has nothing to do with me. Phew.

“To attract all that you want, you need to be in the same vibration as the things you desire.”

            I am asking you to consider the same.  Try to get to place where you accept all people as they are.  You can choose who to spend your time with and who to form friendships with. Beyond that don’t worry about what others are doing or saying, even if it is directed toward you or even worse hurting you.  This is not about you.  And to keep your energy field clear and in a place where you can attract all that you desire, it is important to only hold positive thoughts about other people, all other people, no matter what.

            When you feel an emotion toward another person, you are feeling that emotion, it lives in you, not them. Get it? All the emotions you feel need to be positive.  Do not allow yourself to plummet because you are feeling negatively about another person. To attract all that you want, you need to be in the same vibration as the things you desire. Does this make sense? Let’s use my example to explain more fully.

            The things I desired were positive, exciting, stress-free.  To attract them toward me I too needed to be positive, exciting, stress-free. Like attaches to like.  If my vibration matches the vibration of what I desire, then I can attract it easily.  When I was stressed out, bummed out, tired, broke, I could not attract toward me what I desired because we were vibrating differently. So, I thought leaped to the life I wanted by believing I had what I wanted, I only thought good feelings toward others and I matched my feelings to feeling of the me living in the life I wanted until it all materialized around me.